FREE BOOKS

Author's List




PREV.   NEXT  
|<   125   126   127   128   129   130   131   132   133   134   135   136   137   138   139   140   141   142   143   144   145   146   147   148   149  
150   151   152   153   154   155   156   157   158   159   160   161   162   163   164   165   166   167   168   169   170   171   172   173   174   >>   >|  
r, taboo, for seven days, whereas amongst the Khasis the only prohibition is that the parents must not cross a stream or wash their clothes until they have propitiated the spirits. A twin birth is _sang_, or taboo. The Khasis argue that as there is but one _Ka Iawbei_ (first ancestress), and one _U Thawlang_ (first ancestor), so one child, either male or female, should be born at a time. A twin birth is accordingly regarded as a visitation from God for some _sang_, or transgression, committed by some member of the clan. When the twins are of opposite sexes the _sang_ is considered to be extremely serious, the Khasi idea being that defilement has taken place within the womb. The case is treated as one of _shong kur_, or marriage within the clan, and the bones of the twins cannot be placed in the sepulchre of the clan. There are no special birth customs amongst the Lynngams. There is no trace of the _couvade_ amongst the Khasis. Marriage. We now come to consider marriage amongst the Khasis from a religious point of view. Shadwell has said that marriage amongst the Khasis "is purely a civil contract." This statement is not correct, for there is an elaborate religious ceremony at which God the creator, _U'lei thaw briew man briew_, the god or goddess of the State, _U_ or _ka'lei Synshar_, and, what is probably more important, the ancestress and ancestor of the clan, _Ka Iawbei-tymmen_ and _U Thawlang_, are invoked. There are three marriage ceremonies prevalent amongst the Khasis, which are (_a_) _Pynhiarsynjat_, (_b_) _Lamdoh_ and (_c_) _Iadih-kiad_, respectively. The first and second forms above mentioned are considered the more respectable; the last-named is resorted to by the very poor who cannot afford the greater expense entailed by the first two ceremonies. _Preliminaries_.--A young man of marriageable age, say between seventeen or eighteen years of age and twenty-five, fixes upon a girl of, say between thirteen and eighteen years, as likely to become a fitting partner; probably he has been acquainted with the young woman for some time before, and is on more or less easy terms of intimacy with her. He mentions the name of the girl to his parents, and uncles and aunts in the house, and they agree or disagree, as the case may be. Sometimes marriages are arranged by the parents of the young people themselves. Having agreed regarding the fitness of the bride, the young man's parents send a male representative of
PREV.   NEXT  
|<   125   126   127   128   129   130   131   132   133   134   135   136   137   138   139   140   141   142   143   144   145   146   147   148   149  
150   151   152   153   154   155   156   157   158   159   160   161   162   163   164   165   166   167   168   169   170   171   172   173   174   >>   >|  



Top keywords:

Khasis

 

marriage

 

parents

 

eighteen

 

ceremonies

 

considered

 

religious

 

Iawbei

 
ancestress
 
Thawlang

ancestor

 

marriageable

 
prohibition
 

Preliminaries

 

greater

 

expense

 

entailed

 
twenty
 

afford

 
seventeen

representative

 
Lamdoh
 

resorted

 

mentioned

 

respectable

 

thirteen

 

disagree

 

uncles

 

mentions

 

fitness


Having
 

arranged

 
people
 

marriages

 

agreed

 

Sometimes

 

acquainted

 

Pynhiarsynjat

 

fitting

 

partner


intimacy

 

important

 

treated

 

defilement

 

special

 

customs

 
Lynngams
 

sepulchre

 

spirits

 

propitiated