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t _directions_ of actions also suggest various ideas. Your selling purpose is to get ideas over from your mind to the mind of the other man. It is especially important that the direction of your gestures should conform to your sales intention. Every movement you make to aid your purpose should suggest your mental action _toward_ the prospect, or _away from_ yourself. It should signify that you are taking something out of your mind and offering it to his. Of course you don't _break into_ his head with your idea and force him to receive it. You just bring it to the front porch of his mind. Then, if you have been skillful in your salesmanship, _he_ will open the door of interest after _you_ ring the bell of attention, and will permit your idea to enter his thoughts. But he is unlikely to admit it unless by some indication _from_ you _to_ him he knows what is expected of him. If you gesture toward yourself when expressing your thoughts, you do not suggest to the other man that he take in your ideas. Instead you concentrate his attention on your selfishness and your individual opinion. The characteristic gestures of the typical old peddler are displeasing because they are made in the wrong _direction_. He holds his arms close to his body and gesticulates toward himself. He makes the impression that he does not have your interest at heart in the least, but only his own. [Sidenote: Affirmation And Denial] An up-and-down movement suggests something standing. It has the associated significance of vitality or life. Conversely, a side-to-side gesture suggests similarity to things lying down, lack of vitality, or the death of ideas. By holding yourself erect you make a very different impression of your energy than would be made were you to lean to one side. You can affirm a statement by an up-and-down movement of your hand or by a nod of your head. You deny suggestively with a horizontal gesture or by shaking your head from side to side. [Sidenote: Levels of Action] The significance of action on different _planes_ or _levels_ is seldom appreciated. The level of eye action is of especial importance in suggesting particular ideas. When you look another person in the eye, you convey to him the idea of direct mental energy. You suggest the straight action of your mind in team-work with his. Your eye action on the same level indicates to him that you are thinking on the _practical_ plane. [Sidenote: Lifting Prospect's Tho
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