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verett Trues" you meet. _Superficial_, _assumed_ indications will not help you to comprehend the _inner_ man you want to influence. _Restrict your size-up to the signs of that inner man._ While the old gorgon you face is brow-beating you, he may be planning in the back of his head an act of gentle kindness to some one. If he is _habitually_ kind, there will be physical indications of that characteristic; in his _tones_ and _acts_ if not in his _words_. Look for these signs beneath his harsh manner, which is merely a disguise he has put on. "Everett True" behaves like a domineering tyrant, but he really is characterized by an acute sensitiveness to what is right and just. [Sidenote: Judge By Unconscious Appearance And Actions] When sizing up a man, depend principally upon details of his _appearance_ and _actions_. Translate whatever you see or hear into definite discriminative judgments regarding him. His muscle structure and movements indicate certain traits. Of course you should also observe and size up the significance of the words and tones he uses. But a man employs his speech with the conscious intention of making impressions. Therefore it is not safe to rely on a size-up based on what he says. Your prospect may be using his words and tones to hide, rather than to reveal, his inner self. However, if you know how to separate and classify _details of muscle structure and action_, you can depend safely on specific conclusions based on these indications. The muscle structure of a man is the result of his habits of living, or of his predominant characteristics. He builds it up unconsciously and is unable to disguise it. It can be interpreted as certain proof that he has particular traits. Most of his movements, too, are made without his realizing exactly what they denote of his character and present thoughts. He just "acts natural." Therefore if you read indications of the inner man by analytically observing his _physique_ and _actions_, you will gain reliable information about him. He will not know that he is revealing his traits and what he is thinking. [Sidenote: Your Opinions About People] From your earliest childhood to this moment you have been forming first-hand opinions of other people by observing and interpreting their words, tones, and movements. Sizing up men is not a new process to you. But in order to be a certainly successful salesman of yourself you should _observe more intelligently and discr
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