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no_? to what end? [2367] "Nescire velle quae Magister maximus Docere non vult, erudita inscitia est." _Unfortunate marriage_.] Amongst these passions and irksome accidents, unfortunate marriage may be ranked: a condition of life appointed by God himself in Paradise, an honourable and happy estate, and as great a felicity as can befall a man in this world, [2368]if the parties can agree as they ought, and live as [2369]Seneca lived with his Paulina; but if they be unequally matched, or at discord, a greater misery cannot be expected, to have a scold, a slut, a harlot, a fool, a fury or a fiend, there can be no such plague. Eccles. xxvi. 14, "He that hath her is as if he held a scorpion," &c. xxvi. 25, "a wicked wife makes a sorry countenance, a heavy heart, and he had rather dwell with a lion than keep house with such a wife." Her [2370]properties Jovianus Pontanus hath described at large, _Ant. dial. Tom. 2_, under the name of Euphorbia. Or if they be not equal in years, the like mischief happens. Cecilius in _Agellius lib. 2. cap. 23_, complains much of an old wife, _dum ejus morti inhio, egomet mortuus vivo inter vivos_, whilst I gape after her death, I live a dead man amongst the living, or if they dislike upon any occasion, [2371] "Judge who that are unfortunately wed What 'tis to come into a loathed bed." The same inconvenience befalls women. [2372] "At vos o duri miseram lugete parentes, Si ferro aut laqueo laeva hac me exsolvere sorte Sustineo:"------ "Hard hearted parents both lament my fate, If self I kill or hang, to ease my state." [2373]A young gentlewoman in Basil was married, saith Felix Plater, _observat. l. 1_, to an ancient man against her will, whom she could not affect; she was continually melancholy, and pined away for grief; and though her husband did all he could possibly to give her content, in a discontented humour at length she hanged herself. Many other stories he relates in this kind. Thus men are plagued with women; they again with men, when they are of divers humours and conditions; he a spendthrift, she sparing; one honest, the other dishonest, &c. Parents many times disquiet their children, and they their parents. [2374]"A foolish son is an heaviness to his mother." _Injusta noverca_: a stepmother often vexeth a whole family, is matter of repentance, exercise of patience, fuel of dissension, which made Cato's son expostulate wit
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