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rofessional way to the women's apartments of the homes of the better class of the Chinese people. A Chinese home is different from our own. It is composed of many one-story buildings, around open courts, one behind the other, and sometimes covers several acres of ground. Then it is divided into men's and women's apartments, the men receiving their friends in theirs and the women likewise receiving their friends by a side gate in their own apartments, which are at the rear of the dwelling. A wealthy man usually, in addition to his wife, has one or more concubines, and each of these ladies has an apartment of her own for herself and her children,--though all the children of all the concubines reckon as belonging to the first wife. I have heard Sir Robert Hart tell an amusing incident which occurred in Peking. He said that the Chinese minister appointed to the court of Saint James came to call on him before setting out upon his journey. After conversing for some time he said: "I should be glad to see Lady Hart. I believe it is customary in calling on a foreign gentleman to see his lady, is it not?" "It is," said Sir Robert, "and I should be delighted to have you see her, but Lady Hart is in England with our children, and has not been here for twenty years." "Ah, indeed, then perhaps I might see your second wife." "That you might, if I had one. But the customs of our country do not allow us to have a second wife. Indeed they would imprison us if we were to have two wives." "How singular," said the official with a nod of his head. "You do not appreciate the advantages of this custom of ours." That there are advantages in this custom from the Chinese point of view, I have no doubt. But from certain things I have heard I fear there are disadvantages as well. One day the head eunuch from the palace of one of the leading princes in Peking came to ask my wife, who was their physician, to go to see some of the women or children who were ill. It was drawing near to the New Year festival and, of course, they had their own absorbing topics of conversation in the servants' courts. I said to him: "The Prince has a good many children, has he not?" "Twenty-three," he answered. "How many concubines has he?" I inquired. "Three," he replied, "but he expects to take on two more after the holidays." "Doesn't it cause trouble in a family for a man to have so many women about? I should think they would be jealous o
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