been a captain of a man of war; but, disgusted with the
service, on account of the preferment of men whose chief merit was their
family connections or borough interest, he retired into the country;
and, not knowing what to do with himself--married. In his family, to
regain his lost consequence, he determined to keep up the same passive
obedience, as in the vessels in which he had commanded. His orders were
not to be disputed; and the whole house was expected to fly, at the word
of command, as if to man the shrouds, or mount aloft in an elemental
strife, big with life or death. He was to be instantaneously obeyed,
especially by my mother, whom he very benevolently married for love;
but took care to remind her of the obligation, when she dared, in
the slightest instance, to question his absolute authority. My eldest
brother, it is true, as he grew up, was treated with more respect by
my father; and became in due form the deputy-tyrant of the house. The
representative of my father, a being privileged by nature--a boy, and
the darling of my mother, he did not fail to act like an heir apparent.
Such indeed was my mother's extravagant partiality, that, in comparison
with her affection for him, she might be said not to love the rest
of her children. Yet none of the children seemed to have so little
affection for her. Extreme indulgence had rendered him so selfish, that
he only thought of himself; and from tormenting insects and animals, he
became the despot of his brothers, and still more of his sisters.
"It is perhaps difficult to give you an idea of the petty cares which
obscured the morning of my life; continual restraint in the most trivial
matters; unconditional submission to orders, which, as a mere child,
I soon discovered to be unreasonable, because inconsistent and
contradictory. Thus are we destined to experience a mixture of
bitterness, with the recollection of our most innocent enjoyments.
"The circumstances which, during my childhood, occurred to fashion my
mind, were various; yet, as it would probably afford me more pleasure
to revive the fading remembrance of newborn delight, than you, my child,
could feel in the perusal, I will not entice you to stray with me
into the verdant meadow, to search for the flowers that youthful hopes
scatter in every path; though, as I write, I almost scent the fresh
green of spring--of that spring which never returns!
"I had two sisters, and one brother, younger than myself, m
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