us, and would gladly help us if they
get the opportunity.
Comradeship is one of the finest facts, and one of the strongest forces
in life. A mere strong man, however capable, and however singly
successful, is of little account by himself. There is no glamour of
romance in his career. The kingdom of Romance belongs to David, not to
Samson--to David, with his eager, impetuous, affectionate nature, for
whom three men went in the jeopardy of life to bring him a drink of
water; and all for love of him. It is not the self-centred,
self-contained hero, who lays hold of us; it is ever the comradeship of
heroes. Dumas' Three Musketeers (and the Gascon who made a greater
fourth), with their oath, "Each for all, and all for each," inherit
that kingdom of Romance, with all that ever have been tied in bands of
love.
Robertson of Brighton in one of his letters tells how a friend of his
had, through cowardice or carelessness, missed an opportunity of
putting him right on a point with which he was charged, and so left him
defenceless against a slander. With his native sweetness of soul, he
contents himself with the exclamation, "How rare it is to have a friend
who will defend you thoroughly and boldly!" Yet that is just one of
the loyal things a friend can do, sometimes when it would be impossible
for a man himself to do himself justice with others. Some things,
needful to be said or done under certain circumstances, cannot be
undertaken without indelicacy by the person concerned, and the keen
instinct of a friend should tell him that he is needed. A little
thoughtfulness would often suggest things that could be done for our
friends, that would make them feel that the tie which binds us to them
is a real one. That man is rich indeed, who possesses thoughtful,
tactful friends, with whom he feels safe when present, and in whose
hands his honor is secure when absent. If there be no loyalty, there
can be no great friendship. Most of our friendships lack the
distinction of greatness, because we are not ready for little acts of
service. Without these our love dwindles down to a mere sentiment, and
ceases to be the inspiring force for good to both lives, which it was
at the beginning.
The aid we may receive from friendship may be of an even more powerful,
because of a more subtle, nature than material help. It may be a
safeguard against temptation. The recollection of a friend whom we
admire is a great force to save us f
|