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the door and to _induce_ the extension of welcome to your ideas. [Sidenote: Our Old Acquaintance Again] Here again we meet our old acquaintance, the discriminative-restrictive method. You must _discriminate_ between the process of knocking at the door of opportunity and the process of securing the invitation to come in. Then, in _practicing_ these related but different steps of the selling process, it is necessary that when you knock you _restrict_ yourself to the use of the methods that are most effective in gaining _attention_. Similarly you should restrict yourself to using the very _different_ methods of securing _interest_, when you work to get an invitation for your ideas to come inside the other man's mind and make themselves at home there. [Sidenote: Process of Compelling Attention] Psychologists define "Attention" as "that act of the mind which holds to a given object perceived by one or more senses, to the _exclusion_ of all other objects that might be perceived at that time by the same or other senses." A knock at a door attracts attention because it temporarily diverts the previous attentiveness of the mind to other things, and concentrates it on a new object of attention. The sense of hearing is _struck_. Whether or not the mind is _willing_ to hear, it _cannot help perceiving_ the sudden new sound. Its attention is _forced_. The instant the knock is heard, the mind is compelled to drop or suspend what it has been thinking about; though this _exclusive_ new attention to the knock may last but a fraction of a second. Our _senses_ function under the control of the sub-conscious mind. It is futile for us to _will_ that we _won't_ hear, or see, or taste, etc. We _have_ to take in sense impressions, whether we want to do so or not. Therefore, if you employ restrictively the _sense-hitting_ method, you can force the man upon whom you call to give his _attention_ to you or to the presentation of your ideas. [Sidenote: Inducing Interest] It is necessary to discriminate, however, between the use of the avenues to reach the mind center of _attention_, and the use of very _different_ ways into the mind center of _interest_. If you start wrong, there is very little chance that you will arrive at the right destination. The center of interest is wholly under the control of the _conscious_ mind. Your prospect can refuse to be interested, if he chooses, despite your determination to interest him. _His inter
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