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sy to acquire as bad ones, but practically this is not the case. Only a few bad habits are the result of conscious choice and effort; for example, the acquiring of a liking for tobacco and liquor, the taste of which for most children is disagreeable if not nauseating at first, but this taste, through practice, often becomes an uncontrollable craving. Most bad habits, however, come about unconsciously and are the result of "just letting things happen." This, undoubtedly, is what the proverb means which states, "Man is born to trouble as the sparks are to fly upward." Most good habits, on the other hand, are the result of conscious effort, especially on the part of parents and teachers. A reason for this is that the strongest instincts in children are those relating to self-preservation and the gratification of personal desires, hence selfishness, greediness, anger, and the fighting instinct are natural to the child, while generosity, good manners, respect for the rights of others, and sympathy require, in order to be properly developed, persistent effort and education. Parents, therefore, must persevere in training up the child in the way he should go if they would cultivate in him habits that bless his whole life. Imitation also plays a remarkable part in the formation of habits. The child learns to walk, talk, use his hands in certain ways, and to eat, sleep, and dress after the manner of his elders. He uses good language or bad according to the examples heard; in fact, nearly everything a child does is the result of copying after others. Whether his habits be good or bad, efficient or slovenly, therefore, depends largely on the nature of the examples he has to follow. LESSON VIII QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION 1. How are habits formed? 2. Give examples to show that habit dominates most of the activities of life. 3. Why are good habits more difficult to form than bad ones? 4. Illustrate the power of imitation in the formation of habits. 5. What is the relation of habit to training and education? 6. What is the relation of habit to the skilled workman? 7. In what way can the expert increase efficiency in every vocation and profession? 8. How might much time be saved in the home and on the farm by the acquirement of effective habits in work? _Reference_: For further study of habit see "Phillip's Elementary Psychology." HABIT CONTINUED _Right Habits Must Be Acquired Early; Wrong
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