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ith that which is unnatural and deceitful without having artificial conduct forced upon him. LESSON XIV QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION 1. What may result from developing an artificial appetite in children? 2. What should the young mother avoid in feeding her child? 3. What evils result from over-indulgence in candy, nick-nacks, soda water, etc.? 4. In the dress of children how is vanity often developed? 5. What may result from constant praise of the good looks of the child? 6. Discuss proper dress in children. For further help on these points read Mrs. Harrison's "Study of Child Nature," pages 47 to 54. CULTIVATING THE EMOTIONS _It Is a Serious Mistake to Begin Educating the Intellect Before Training the Emotions_ In the history of the race, art develops before science, just as in nature the blossom comes before the fruit; so in the child emotions come before reason, and he is attracted and his sympathies aroused by nearly any appeal to his senses long before his understanding tells him why. Notwithstanding this fact, nearly every educative effort is confined to the intellect and the feelings are allowed to shift for themselves. The result is that many a child grows up cold, hard, and matter-of-fact, with little of color, poetry or sympathy to enrich his life. The common mistake is to starve the emotions in order to overfeed the understanding. The education of the heart must keep pace with that of the head if a well-balanced character is to be developed. Even in school the teacher too often proceeds to stuff the child with information before first awakening interest in the subject. Once arouse the interest of a child in any subject and he will pursue it to success. Toys are of much value to children not only as promoters of play but because they appeal to their sympathies and give exercise to the emotions. The two great obstacles to the exercise of the right emotions are fear and pity. Toys are great aids in overcoming these tendencies. Through dramatic play with toys, children exercise their own imaginations and put action into their own lives; and gradually fear and pity are overcome through the confidence the child develops in himself. "We find the instincts of the race renewed in each new-born infant. Each individual child desires to master his surroundings. He cannot yet drive a real horse and wagon, but his very soul delights in the three-inch horse and the gaily-painted wago
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