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l you," answered Madame D'Anville; "they are brave, honest, generous, mais ils sont demi-barbares." CHAPTER XII. Pia mater, Plus quam se sapere, et virtutibus esse priorem Vult, et ait prope vera.--Horace. Vere mihi festus atras Eximet curas.--Horace. The next morning I received a letter from my mother. "My dear Henry," began my affectionate and incomparable parent-- "My dear Henry, "You have now fairly entered the world, and though at your age my advice may be but little followed, my experience cannot altogether be useless. I shall, therefore, make no apology for a few precepts, which I hope may tend to make you a wiser and better man. "I hope, in the first place, that you have left your letter at the ambassador's, and that you will not fail to go there as often as possible. Pay your court in particular to Lady--She is a charming person, universally popular, and one of the very few English people to whom one may safely be civil. Apropos, of English civility, you have, I hope, by this time discovered, that you have to assume a very different manner with French people than with our own countrymen: with us, the least appearance of feeling or enthusiasm is certain to be ridiculed every where; but in France, you may venture to seem not quite devoid of all natural sentiments: indeed, if you affect enthusiasm, they will give you credit for genius, and they will place all the qualities of the heart to the account of the head. You know that in England, if you seem desirous of a person's acquaintance you are sure to lose it; they imagine you have some design upon their wives or their dinners; but in France you can never lose by politeness: nobody will call your civility forwardness and pushing. If the Princess De T--, and the Duchesse de D--, ask you to their houses (which indeed they will, directly you have left your letters), go there two or three times a week, if only for a few minutes in the evening. It is very hard to be acquainted with great French people, but when you are, it is your own fault if you are not intimate with them. "Most English people have a kind of diffidence and scruple at calling in the evening--this is perfectly misplaced: the French are never ashamed of themselves, like us, whose persons, families, and houses are never fit to be seen, unless they are dressed out for a party. "Don't imagine that the ease of French manners is at all like what we call ease: you must not lounge o
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