eople? Why should we not be refined, cultivated, and polished in our
demeanour and bearing? Why should we not seek to charm if we can? Why
should we not cultivate and encourage in ourselves consideration,
thoughtfulness, and graciousness towards others in the smallest details
of daily life?

CHAPTER II

INTRODUCTIONS

There are ceremonious introductions and unceremonious introductions,
premeditated introductions and unpremeditated introductions; but, in all
cases, introductions should never be indiscriminately made--that is to
say, without a previous knowledge on the part of those making them as to
whether the persons thus introduced will be likely to appreciate each
other, or the reverse, or unless they have expressed a desire to become
acquainted. For instance, a lady should not introduce two of her
acquaintances residing in a country town or watering-place, moving in
different circles, unless they have each expressed such a desire.

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=An Undesired Introduction=, if made, compels the one to whom it is the
most unwelcome, to treat the other with marked coldness, or to continue
an acquaintance that is distasteful.

Should the slightest doubt exist as to how an introduction will be
received--whether the meditated introduction is a spontaneous desire on
the part of a lady or gentleman, or whether one person expressed a wish
to make the acquaintance of another person and expressed that wish to a
mutual friend--the received rule is to consult the wishes of both
persons on the subject before making the introduction.

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=When a Difference of Rank= exists between two persons, it would be
sufficient to ascertain the wishes of the person of highest rank alone.

A person about to make an introduction, should say to the one lady, but
not in the hearing of the other, "Mrs. A----, may I introduce Mrs. B----
to you?" or some such formula, according to the degree of intimacy
existing between herself and Mrs. A. (See "The Art of Conversing.")

When two ladies are of equal rank, the wishes of the person with whom
the person making the introduction is least intimate should be
consulted.

In the case of one person having expressed a wish to make the
acquaintance of another, there remains but the wishes of one person to
ascertain.

Acquiescence having been given, the introduction should be made.

In making an introduction, the lady of l