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lace without causing us physical discomfort, and this condition is a serious stumbling-block in the way of the acquisition of poise, for, in view of the great stress the man of timidity lays upon the opinion of others, he will be apprehensive of giving them any inkling of his distress, and yet his difficulty in breathing will be bound to reveal it. The exercise of which we have been speaking should be performed with care twice a day. For those whose leisure hours are few it can be accomplished without losing any of the time which is already preempted by other things. It is merely a question of remembering it as soon as one wakes in the morning and of never forgetting it before one falls asleep at night. The few minutes between the moment that one wakes and the time one gets out of bed can be most profitably employed in this way. The same thing is true at night. If the occupations of the day and of the evening leave us no time to devote to this exercise, we can always go through it in the moments between retiring to bed and falling asleep. It will thus be seen that there is really no valid excuse for not undertaking this practise, whose effects will certainly be most beneficial. SECOND SERIES--TRAINING OF THE EYE But our physical efforts must not stop here. It is more than necessary that we should make others feel the effects of the mastery that we are slowly acquiring over ourselves. The eye is an invaluable assistant to the man who is studying to acquire poise. It is not necessary here, in connection with the magnetic properties of the eye, to enter into a digression too extensive for the scope of this book, but we can not neglect this one more-than-important factor altogether. We are speaking now not only of the power in the gaze of others but of that of our own eyes in relation to our associates. We must do our best, in fine, to develop the power of our gaze, while studying to fortify ourselves against the influence brought to bear upon us in this direction by others. One frequently notices, especially in the case of people who are timid, a propensity to lose their powers of resistance with those who are able to fix them with a steady stare. One has often seen people who lack will-power emerging completely upset from the grueling of an interview in which they have admitted everything that they had most fervently resolved never to disclose. A superior force has dominated them t
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