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t of a contest, however courteously it may be conducted, frightening him to such an extent that he loses all his ideas. The unfortunate shrinking which characterizes him makes him an easy prey for people of exaggerated enthusiasms as well as to quick disillusionment. A token of apparent sympathy touches him so profoundly that he does not wait to estimate its value and to decide whether it be sincere or not. He passes in a moment from careless gaiety to the blackest despair if he imagines that he has observed even the appearance of an unsympathetic gesture. He does not need to be sure, to be miserable. It is enough for him if the circumstances that he thought favorable become seemingly hostile and antagonistic. How utterly different is the attitude of the man who is endowed with poise! His firmness of soul saves him from unconsidered enthusiasms and he jealously preserves his control in the presence of excessive protestations as well as when confronting indications of aimless antagonism. How can such a man as this possibly fail to form a correct judgment and to benefit by all the qualities that depend upon it? Absolute sincerity toward oneself is one of the forms of sound judgment. Without indulging in excessive modesty, it is a good thing to endeavor to become intimately acquainted with one's aptitudes and one's failings, and to admit the latter with the utmost frankness in order to set about the work of correcting them. It is also necessary to know exactly what sort of territory it is in which one is taking one's risks. The world of affairs, whatever these last may happen to be, may be likened to a vast preserve containing traps for wild beasts. The man who wishes to walk in such a place without coming to harm will, first of all, make a careful study of the ground for the purpose of avoiding the traps and pitfalls that may engulf him or wound him as he passes. Just as soon as he has located these dangers his step becomes firm and he can advance with a tranquil gait and head upraised along the paths which he knows do not conceal any dangerous surprizes. These are the pitfalls that most frequently threaten that daring that we sometimes find in the timid. Their very defects preventing them from making proper comparisons, they are altogether too prone to ignore their faults and to magnify their virtues and so fall an easy prey to the designer and the sharper. Their very carelessness in
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