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than a source of
guilt.
The achievement of intimacy, general and specific, leads to the
development of another capacity essential to integrity; namely, the
capacity for generation, whether of offspring or creativity of some
other kind. Generative capacity is basic to an individual's assumption
of responsibility, and to his ability to initiate and bring to
fulfillment new life or new expressions of life. The power of
origination is open to anyone, and we can either affirm the power or
deny it. If we deny it, we shall have to find substitutes which usually
are subpersonal and which involve us in a kind of superficial but
unfulfilling intimacy. On the other hand, the person with integrity is
one who can initiate creativity of his own, or consent to and
participate in the creativity of others. As Dr. Erikson has pointed out,
he can be both a leader and a follower. These are qualities and values
needed by all men, and the cultivation of them is the task of the church
and the purpose of its teaching.
The objectives of love, we see, are not abstract, but specific and
concrete. Love calls forth persons and reunites life with life by
providing the relationships in which the created needs of men are met.
The environment of saving love is needed to produce out of our
biological nature and the physical world in which we live the image of
God in each of us and the Kingdom of God for all of us.
[17] _Man's Need and God's Action_, Reuel L. Howe, The Seabury Press,
Greenwich, Connecticut, 1953, Chapter V.
[18] _Growth and Crises of the Healthy Personality_, Erik H. Erikson.
Pamphlet from _Problems of Infancy and Childhood_, Josiah Macy,
Jr. Foundation, New York, 1950. Used by permission.
[19] Ibid.
[20] Ibid.
V
THOSE WHO WOULD LOVE
"We know that we have passed out of death into life,
because we love the brethren."--_1 John 3:14_
Thus far in our discussion we have considered the nature of love, the
development of the needs of the individual, and the objectives of love
in calling persons into being. Now we turn to a discussion of the lover,
or of the person or persons who are the instruments of that love, such
as parents, teachers, ministers, and every man of whatever function. We
shall also consider the nature of the relationship in which healing and
reconciliation take place, and consider some of its resources.
_The Power of the Personal_
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