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embryo financier. Not long ago the father announced to him: "Well, Harold, that man I was telling you of has failed--lost his money--and one thousand dollars of mine have gone with it." The boy's white, set face would have alarmed a more observant man. "Oh, papa! what shall we do!" "Get along somehow, my boy!" was the unsatisfactory answer. Then, as the boy sadly and slowly left the room, the man to whom one thousand dollars were no more than one dime to this anxious child, explained, laughingly, to a friend, that "that little fellow was really wonderful; he understood business, and was as much interested in it as a man of forty could be." We fathers and mothers have no right to make our children old before their time. Each age has its own trials, which are as great as any one person should bear. We know that the troubles that come to our babies are only baby troubles, but they are as large to them as our griefs are to us. A promised drive, which does not "materialize," proves as great a disappointment to your tiny girl as the unfulfilled promise of a week in the country would to you, her sensible mother. Of course our children must learn to bear their trials. My plea is that they may not be forced to bear our anxieties also. If a thing is an annoyance to you, it will be an agony to your little child, who has not a tenth of your experience, philosophy and knowledge of life. There is something cowardly and weak in the man or woman who has so little self-control that he or she must press a child's tender shoulders into service in bearing burdens. Teach your children to be careful, teach them prudence and economy, but let them be taught as children. The forcing of a child's sympathies sometimes produces a hardening effect, as in the case of a small boy whose mother was one of the sickly-sentimental sort. She had drawn too often upon her child's sensibilities. "Charlie," she said, plaintively, to her youngest boy, "what would you do if poor mamma were to get very sick?" "Send for the doctor." "But, Charlie, suppose poor, dear mamma should die! Then, what would you do?" "I'd go to the funeral!" was the cheerful response. To my mind this mother had the son ordained for her from the beginning of the world. Many boys are all love and sympathy for their mothers. Mamma appeals to all that is tender and chivalrous in the nature of the man that is to be. The maternal tenderness ought to be too stron
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