t are rapidly vanishing. I might add that her
fiance whom she discarded because of his lack of virginity was a very
bright young physician, who is now very successful and very happily
married. She I hear is a very unhappy person, in danger of sinking
into a permanent state of melancholia. And she had been of a very
jolly disposition.

=Case three= is peculiar in that the fiance _was_ absolutely chaste.
She asked him, and he told her that he had never had any relations
with anybody and he never had a trace or suspicion of any venereal
disease. The young lady was not satisfied. She wanted her fiance to
bring her a certificate from a specialist testifying to that effect.
The young man told her that it was foolish, that he would not subject
himself to the expense and annoyance of a number of tests when he
_knew_ that not only did he not have any venereal disease, but that
there was no possibility of his getting any. No, that did not satisfy
her. She became suspicious. "If you have nothing to fear, why do you
object to bringing a certificate?" "I have nothing to fear, but I
demand that you respect me and trust me sufficiently to believe that I
am telling the truth when I declare a thing with such positiveness. If
you do not have that much confidence in me now, our future life does
not hold much promise of success." One word led to another, and then
he broke the engagement, as any self-respecting man under the
circumstances would. He is married, and she is not and probably never
will be. Three young lives ruined by perverse teachings.

CHAPTER FORTY-SIX

DIFFERENCE BETWEEN MAN'S AND WOMAN'S SEX AND LOVE LIFE

Seemingly Contradictory Statements--Faulty Interpretations of
Words Sexual Instinct and Love--Difference in Manifestations of
Male and Female Sexual Instincts--Man's Sex Instinct Grosser Than
Woman's--Awakening of Sexual Desire in the Boy and in the
Girl--Woman's Desire for Caresses--Man's Main Desire for Sexual
Relations--Normal Sex Relations as Means of Holding a Man--A
Physiological Reason Why Man is Held--Man and Physical
Love--Woman and Spiritual Love--Preliminaries of Sexual
Intercourse in Men and Women--Physical Attributes--Mental and
Spiritual Qualities--Difference Between Love and "Being in
Love"--Love as a Stimulus to Man--When the Man Loves--When the
Woman Loves--Man's More Engrossing Interests--Lovemaking Irksome
to Man--Man's Polygamous Tendencies--Woman Single-affectioned