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st the old man-made conditions, and they retaliate by falling in love less frequently, and showing still more reluctance to enter the arena of matrimony. Nevertheless, they get there all the same, albeit in a different spirit. Timorous and trembling, our faint-hearted modern lovers gird on their new frock-coats and step shrinkingly into the arena where awaits them--radiant and triumphant--the determined being whose will has brought them thither. No, not _her_ will, but the mysterious will of Nature which remains steadfast and of unswerving purpose, indifferent to our sex-warfare and the progress of our petty loves and hates. The institution of marriage battered, abused, scarred with countless thousands of attacks, stained with the sins of centuries still continues to flourish, for, as Schopenhauer says; '_It is the future generation in its entire individual determination which forces itself into existence through the medium of all this strife and trouble._' The _Will-to-Live_ will always have the last word! II WHY MEN DON'T MARRY 'If you wish the pick of mankind, take a good bachelor and a good wife.' 'There is probably no other act in a man's life so hot-headed and foolish as this of marriage.' --R. L. STEVENSON. 'Whatever may be said against marriage, it is certainly an experience.' --OSCAR WILDE. 'All the men are getting married and none of the girls,' a volatile lady is once reported to have said, and one understands what she meant to convey. In a newspaper correspondence on marriage I once noted the following significant passage: '_But in these days it is different from what it was when I was a girl. Then every boy had his sweetheart and every girl her chap. Now it seems to me the boys don't want sweethearts and the girls can't get chaps. For one youth who means honestly to marry a girl, you will find twenty whose game is mere flirtation, regardless of how the girl may be injured. The times are ungallant and they want mending._' This letter is signed 'A Workman's Wife,' but it bears ample evidence of having been written by a member of the staff, who seemed to consider sufficient _vraisemblance_ had been given to the signature by the inclusion of an occasional vulgarism, such as 'chap.' But in spite of being penned to order, the statements expressed appear to be only too true. The times are ungallant indeed and growing more so every year. Not long ago I was at a cheery
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