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g-stone to the child. In the end woman agrees with Nature. We may go farther, and say Women are nearer the eternal laws than are men. Men govern themselves by the laws they themselves make. Women are lawless. Laws are for the temporal, the fleeting; for a given individual in a given society; for a particular race in a particular clime. Such laws are obeyed by women only under compulsion. They, more far-seeing than men, instinctively peer far beyond the ephemeral rules manufactured by men, into the realm of laws eternal and immutable; these she obeys implicitly, unquestioningly--much to man's amazement--and, it may be, his mortification; for he sees that she is freer than he. This is why, For the man she truly loves a woman will sacrifice everything --everything. The same generous sentiment cannot by any means be attributed to man. * * * Both the wise man and the wise woman--but here I am reminded of the recipe for hare soup. * * * Between the sexes there is in reality but one link--the link amatory. And So long as Nature maintains two sexes, so long will men and women hug, yet chafe under, that slender but invisible bond. Not even Cupid and Psyche avoided a misunderstanding--in spite of the devotion of the other. And, If men and women differ in matters amatory, it is because men and women have trodden different evolutionary paths: The man, given up to the chase (for pelts or pelf) and careful of his status in the tribe, thinks only of himself and the present; The woman, her sole care the nurture of her offspring, thinks only of her progeny, and the future. But since The family is the unit of the state, therefore The state makes laws, not for love, but for the family. Happy that family the parents of which are bound by cosmic not by municipal affection. Nevertheless, Say what one will, Love scoffs at laws; howsoever marriage and divorce may be regulated by parliamentary statute. Man, as a member of a political community, may make marriage laws to suit that community--laws to suit that community--laws "de vinculo matrimonii" and laws "de mensa et thoro", decrees "nisi prius" and decrees absolute; but Law can no more bind the affections than it can bind the sweet influences of the Pleiades. And yet, at bottom, Beneath all municipal and parochial regulations, a great and cosmic law does govern the relations of the sexes; and The lightest whim of the lightest lady has
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