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consists of every sort of edible article known in the Sakai cuisine, and when they have stuffed themselves to their utmost, they dance, sing and draw from their instruments the sharpest notes that ever rent the human ear whilst the furious beating of bamboos give out the sound of wooden bells. Terminated in this way the wedding festival, the newly-made husband and wife return, with the relations of the former, to their own group of huts, where a new one, a nest of love, has been prepared for them. * * * * * Love among the Sakais never becomes a passion or a delirium. It is a quiet calm sentiment, a physiological necessity such as the good soul of Schopenhauer interpreted it, to the great scandal of a certain class of lovers. Men and women are united from a feeling of cordial sympathy, by a spontaneous act of their own wills which would never suffer the least restraint. No personal or family interest suggests or determines the important step. The only thing that may be said to inspire love (and bring about a marriage) in the jungle is that supreme and inviolable law of nature for the conservation of the species. But what is to be admired in the unions of these good, simple people is the fidelity which follows them throughout life. The Sakais are not, I repeat, very ardent spirits, nor are they excessive in sacrificing to Venus perhaps because sensual satisfaction arrives when physiological development imposes it, instead--as too often happens in civilized society, with great damage to morality and race--of after a long and wearisome vigil, always waiting for financial conditions to permit the formation of a family. It is a fact to be noted that neither the men nor the women feel drawn toward other than their rightful partner, which naturally contributes a great deal in maintaining faithfulness between the two. Sometimes, but very rarely, one may find a couple whose difference of character renders cohabitation impossible. There are no scenes of fury, no violent quarrels and, still less, no reciprocal blows. The two interested parties merely declare that his or her heart suffers too much from a life of such perpetual misunderstandings and they decide to part good friends, hoping to find better luck next time. They will then separate with the best and most sincere wishes for each other's future happiness. The woman only takes away with her the youngest of her childre
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