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ide of the question. The child ought to learn the truth about its sex instinct. Most important of all, the child who has indulged in auto-eroticism ought to be helped to get rid of his or her sense of guilt. This sense of guilt is the primary evil of self-abuse; abolish it, and the child is on the way to a self-cure. How many children can go to their teacher and make confession of sex troubles? Very few. It is the teachers' fault; they set themselves up as moralists, and a moralist is a positive danger to any child. Not long ago I was addressing a meeting of teachers in south London. At question time a woman challenged me. "You have condemned moralists," she said; "do you mean to say that you would never teach a child the difference between right and wrong?" "Never," I answered, "for I do not know what is right and what is wrong." "Then I think you ought not to be a teacher," she said. "I know what is right for me, and wrong for me," I went on to explain, "but I do not know what is right and wrong for you. Nor do I presume to know what is right or wrong for a child." I was pleasingly surprised to find that the meeting roared approval of my reply. * * * * * Macdonald had to attend a funeral to-day, and he asked me if I would take his classes for an hour. I gladly agreed. "Give them a lesson on psychology," he said; "it will maybe improve their behaviour." I went over to the school at two o'clock, and Mac introduced me, although I had already made friends with most of the children in the playground and the fields. Mac then went away and I sat down at his desk. "We'll have a talk," I said, "just a little friendly talk between you and me. I want to hear your opinions on some things." They looked at me with interest. "Why," I said, "why do you sit quiet in school?" Andrew Smith put up his hand. "Please, sir, 'cause if we don't the mester gies us the strap." "A very sound reason, too," I commented. "And now I want to ask you why you sometimes want to throw papers or slate-pencils about the room." "Please, sir, we never do that," said little Jeannie Simpson. "The mester wud punish us," said another girl. "But," I cried, "surely one of you has thrown things about the room?" Tom Murray, the bad boy of the school (according to Mac), put up his hand. "Please, sir, I did it once, but the mester licked me." "Why did you do it, Tom?" Tom thought
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