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and it will prepare the way for separating them afterwards without awakening feelings of resentment, if the experiment of their sitting together should fail. * * * * * Another case would be managed perhaps in a little different way, where the tendency to play was more decided. After speaking to the individuals mildly, two or three times, you see them again at play. You ask them to wait that day after school and come to your desk. They have, then, the rest of the day to think occasionally of the difficulty they have brought themselves into, and the anxiety and suspense which they will naturally feel, will give you every advantage for speaking to them with effect;--and if you should be engaged a few minutes with some other business, after school, so that they should have to stand a little while in silent expectation, waiting for their turn, it would contribute to the permanence of the effect. "Well, boys," at length you say, with a serious but frank tone of voice, "I saw you playing in a disorderly manner to-day. And in the first place I want you to tell me honestly all about it. I am not going to punish you,--but I want you to be open and honest about it. What were you doing?" The boys hesitate. "George, what did you have in your hand?" "A piece of paper." "And what were you doing with it?" _George._ "William was trying to take it away from me." "Was there any thing on it?" "Yes sir." "What?" George looks down a little confused. _William._ "George had been drawing some pictures on it. "I see each of you are ready to tell of the other's fault, but it would be much more honorable if each was open in acknowledging his own. Have I ever had to speak to you before for playing together in school?" "Yes sir, I believe you have," says one, looking down. "More than once?" "Yes sir." "More than twice?" "I do not recollect exactly,--I believe you have." "Well, now, what do you think I ought to do next?" The boys have nothing to say. "Do you prefer sitting together, or are you willing to have me separate you?" "We should rather sit together, sir, if you are willing," says George. "I have no objection to your sitting together, if you could only resist the temptation to play. I want all the boys in the school to have pleasant seats." There is a pause,--the teacher hesitating what to do. "Suppose now I were to make one more experiment, and let
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