generous thought, a strength to every good purpose, a
comfort in every sorrow.
Living so near the confines of the spiritual world, she seemed already to
see into it: hence the words of comfort which she addressed to a friend
who had lost a son:--
'Dear friend, remember, as long as our loved ones are in God's world,
they are in ours.'
* * * * *
It has been thought by some friends who have read the proof-sheets of the
foregoing that the author should give more specifically her authority for
these statements.
The circumstances which led the writer to England at a certain time
originated a friendship and correspondence with Lady Byron, which was
always regarded as one of the greatest acquisitions of that visit.
On the occasion of a second visit to England, in 1856, the writer
received a note from Lady Byron, indicating that she wished to have some
private, confidential conversation upon important subjects, and inviting
her, for that purpose, to spend a day with her at her country-seat near
London,
The writer went and spent a day with Lady Byron alone; and the object of
the invitation was explained to her. Lady Byron was in such a state of
health, that her physicians had warned her that she had very little time
to live. She was engaged in those duties and retrospections which every
thoughtful person finds necessary, when coming deliberately, and with
open eyes, to the boundaries of this mortal life.
At that time, there was a cheap edition of Byron's works in
contemplation, intended to bring his writings into circulation among the
masses; and the pathos arising from the story of his domestic misfortunes
was one great means relied on for giving it currency.
Under these circumstances, some of Lady Byron's friends had proposed the
question to her, whether she had not a responsibility to society for the
truth; whether she did right to allow these writings to gain influence
over the popular mind by giving a silent consent to what she knew to be
utter falsehoods.
Lady Byron's whole life had been passed in the most heroic
self-abnegation and self-sacrifice: and she had now to consider whether
one more act of self-denial was not required of her before leaving this
world; namely, to declare the absolute truth, no matter at what expense
to her own feelings.
For this reason, it was her desire to recount the whole history to a
person of another country, and entirely out of the sphere of personal and
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