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ending the words of others; but in these cases, we should not reprove or silence them; we should patiently endeavour to find out their hidden meaning. If we rebuke or ridicule them, we shall intimidate them, and either lessen their confidence in themselves or in us. In the one case, we prevent them from thinking; in the other, we deter them from communicating their thoughts; and thus we preclude ourselves from the possibility of assisting them in reasoning. To show parents the nature of the mistakes which children make from their imperfect knowledge of words, we shall give a few examples from real life. S----, at five years old, when he heard some one speak of _bay_ horses, said, he supposed that the bay horses must be the best horses. Upon cross-questioning him, it appeared that he was led to this conclusion by the analogy between the sound of the words _bay_ and _obey_. A few days previous to this, his father had told him that spirited horses were always the most ready to obey. These erroneous analogies between the sound of words and their sense, frequently mislead children in reasoning; we should, therefore, encourage children to explain themselves fully, that we may rectify their errours. When S---- was between four and five years old, a lady who had taken him upon her lap playfully, put her hands before his eyes, and (we believe) asked if he liked to be blinded. S---- said no; and he looked very thoughtful. After a pause, he added, "Smellie says, that children like better to be blinded than to have their legs tied." (S---- had read this in Smellie two or three days before.) _Father._ "Are you of Smellie's opinion?" _S----_ hesitated. _Father._ "Would you rather be blinded, or have your legs tied?" _S----._ "I would rather have my legs tied not quite tight." _Father._ "Do you know what is meant by _blinded_?" _S----._ "Having their eyes put out." _Father._ "How do you mean?" _S----._ "To put something into the eye to make the blood burst out; and then the blood would come all over it, and cover it, and stick to it, and hinder them from seeing--I don't know how." It is obvious, that whilst this boy's imagination pictured to him a bloody orb when he heard the word _blinded_, he was perfectly right in his reasoning in preferring to have his legs tied; but he did not judge of the proposition meant to be laid before him; he judged of another which he had formed for himself. His father explained
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