n, 16
Best age for, 41
Between friends who have become lovers, 34
Breaches of etiquette in, 19, 25
Danger to be avoided in, a, 27
Dark side of an unequally aged, 43
Drifting in, 42
Etiquette for the man who lives at home in, 27
Etiquette for the man who lives in rooms, 28
Exchange of hospitality in, 26
Hints to the man about the girl's family, 23
Hints to the man making up his mind about, 17
"Ineligibles" and, 17
Intellectual affinity in, 16
Kindly offices of relations and friends, 23
Love at first sight, 22
Middle-aged lovers, 44
Old men who court youth, 43
Opportunities for, 16
Question of age in, the, 41
Question of presents, the, 26
Social inequality in, 32
Social intercourse and its etiquette, 18
Tact shown in, 19
The girl's case, 22
The man's case, 22
With the bachelor girl, 30
With the business girl, 31
With the dramatic student, 33
With the home girl, 30
With the medical student and hospital nurse, 33
With the student or professional girl, 32
Young lovers, 42
Young men who woo maturity, 42

Engagements--
Attitude of parents and guardians in, 52
Breaking off, 62
Clandestine, 62
Congratulations on, 53
Etiquette of in former days, 51
Friends who act as go-betweens, 63
Going about together, 58
His visits to her home, 56
In France, 66
In Germany, 66
In Greece, 69
In Hungary, 69
In Italy, 65
In Norway, 69
In Russia, 67
In Spain, 67
In Sweden, 68
In Switzerland, 68
Justifiable clandestine, 63
Length of, the, 61
Letters from and to future mothers-in-law, 55
Love-letters, 60
Making acquaintance with future relations, 54
Making them known, 53
Parent's refusal to, 52
Question of expenses in, 58
Telling friends at a distance, 53
The engaged couple--
In public, 56
In society, 57
Visiting at the same house, 58
The interview with the father, 51
The ring, 54
What the girl should avoid in, 54
When the mother shares the secret, 63

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Etiquette--
How to follow up an acquaintance, 23
Of intercourse between unconfessed lovers, 25
Of Introductions, 21

Flirts--
Female--
Due reserve of, 39
How they accept a changed situation, 39
How they may give encouragement, 39
How to ward off unwelcome offers, 40
Methods of, 37
Transparent devices of, 40
Kindly spontaneous flirts, 37
Male--
Making a girl conspicu