FREE BOOKS

Author's List




PREV.   NEXT  
|<   42   43   44   45   46   47   48   49   50   51   52   53   54   55   56   57   58   59   60   61   62   63   64   65   66  
67   68   69   70   71   72   73   74   75   76   77   78   79   80   81   82   83   84   85   86   87   88   89   90   91   >>   >|  
pection shows those anticipations to have been correct. But man is greater than men; and for the finest aspect of high laws, we must look to individual souls, not to masses. What is the secret of noble manners? Orbital action, always returning into and compensating itself. The gentleman, in offering his respect to others, offers an equal, or rather the same, respect to himself; and his courtesies may flow without stint or jealous reckoning, because they feed their source, being not an expenditure, but a circulation. Submitting to the inward law of honor and the free sense of what befits a man,--to a law perpetually made and spontaneously executed in his own bosom, the instant flowering of his own soul,--he commands his own obedience, and he obeys his own commanding. Though throned above all nations, a king of kings, yet the faithful humble vassal of his own heart; though he serve, yet regal, doing imperial service; he escapes outward constraint by inward anticipation; and all that could he rightly named as his duty to others, he has, ere demand, already discovered, and engaged in, as part of his duty to himself. Now it is the expression of royal freedom in loyal service, of sovereignty in obedience, courage in concession, and strength in forbearance, which makes manners noble. Low may he bow, not with loss, but with access of dignity, who bows with an elevated and ascending heart: there is nothing loftier, nothing less allied to abject behavior, than this grand lowliness. The worm, because it is low, cannot be lowly; but man, uplifted in token of supremacy, may kneel in adoration, bend in courtesy, and stoop in condescension. Only a great pride, that is, a great and reverential repose in one's own being, renders possible a noble humility, which is a great and reverential acknowledgment of the being of others; this humility in turn sustains a higher self-reverence; this again resolves itself into a more majestic humility; and so run, in ever enhancing wave, the great circles of inward honor and outward grace. And without this self-sustaining return of the action into itself, each quality feeding itself from its correlative opposite, there can be no high behavior. This is the reason why qualities loftiest in kind and largest in measure are vulgarly mistaken, not for their friendly opposites, but for their mere contraries,--why a very profound sensibility, a sensibility, too, peculiarly of the spirit, not of nerve only,
PREV.   NEXT  
|<   42   43   44   45   46   47   48   49   50   51   52   53   54   55   56   57   58   59   60   61   62   63   64   65   66  
67   68   69   70   71   72   73   74   75   76   77   78   79   80   81   82   83   84   85   86   87   88   89   90   91   >>   >|  



Top keywords:

humility

 

outward

 

sensibility

 

reverential

 

obedience

 

behavior

 
service
 

action

 
manners
 
respect

dignity

 
access
 
courtesy
 

profound

 
repose
 

condescension

 
lowliness
 

allied

 
loftier
 

ascending


abject

 
supremacy
 

uplifted

 

elevated

 

adoration

 

sustains

 

friendly

 

correlative

 

opposites

 

spirit


quality

 

feeding

 

opposite

 
loftiest
 
largest
 

qualities

 

vulgarly

 

mistaken

 

reason

 

return


sustaining

 

reverence

 
higher
 

resolves

 
measure
 
contraries
 

acknowledgment

 
majestic
 
circles
 

enhancing