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entific budget-making. CHAPTER XVII THE DRESS BUDGET There is that scattereth and yet increaseth; and there is that withholdeth more than is meet and it tendeth to poverty. _Proverbs._ Except a corn of wheat fall into the ground and die, it abideth alone; but if it die, it bringeth forth much fruit. _St Paul._ Even the Son of Man came not to be ministered unto but to minister. _Jesus._ CHAPTER XVII THE DRESS BUDGET The Country Girl has this advantage--the business of the farm and the home are so closely connected that the work she has to do can be carried on without separating her from her home. This would not be so in any work she could undertake in the city. She would not have a great big house to return to from her store or factory, but some little upstairs room, the "hall-bedroom" of that tragic book _The Long Day_, which so painfully portrays the conditions of work for girls in a great city. The Country Girl in her home with her housework about her is in a paradise compared with conditions such as these. The "home" means rent, board, general living expenses--all these are looked out for in the scheme of life for the Country Girl. Why, then, does she feel so great a need for sheer money? The reason is partly this: she has the dress problem on her hands. She is scantily supplied with a bit now and then when she asks for a cloak or some other garment; she is not assigned a certain sum a month, as her self-respecting spirit demands, and left free to use it as her judgment directs. She has not been trained to do this and the fear that she will not do it wisely keeps the father from inaugurating such a system. In the long run, after the daughter has gained wisdom from a few mistakes with the suffering resulting therefrom, the outgo from the parental pocket would not be much increased by adopting the educative method of letting her have the personal management of her little budget. Few fathers can bear to see a daughter really suffer; most fathers will not let her even foolishly think that she is suffering, and a plea from her will generally bring an indulgence in some unnecessary purchase. The problem is intricate and has many sides; but we believe the best way for the father to take would be to place a set sum at her command with the injunction that she is to plan and use it carefully--and make it do! If the parent is able to go so far in
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