rieties of Men--"Love"
Without Sexual Desire--Refraining and Wanting--Cause of
Love at First Sight--"Magnetic Forces" and Love at First
Sight--The Pathological Side--Differentiation of Phases of
Love--Infatuation--Difference Between "Infatuation" and
"Being in Love"--Sexual Satisfaction and Infatuation--Sexual
Satisfaction and Love--Infatuation Mistaken for Love--Love
the Most Mysterious of Human Emotions--Great Love and
Supreme Happiness.
LI. JEALOUSY AND HOW TO COMBAT IT 375
Jealousy the Most Painful of Human Emotions--Impairment of
Health--Mental Havoc--Jealousy as a Primitive Emotion--
Jealousy in the Advanced Thinker and in the Savage--Jealousy
in the Child--Feelings and Environmental Factors--Essential
Factors--Vanity--Anger--Pain--Envy--The Impotent Husband's
Jealousy--Anti-social Qualities--The Jealous and the
Unfaithful Husband--Means of Eradicating the Evil--Iwan
Bloch on the Question--Prof. Robert Michels' Statement--
Remark of Prof. Von Ehrenfels--Havelock Ellis on Variation
in Sexual Relationships--Advanced Ideas--Woman as Man's
Chattel--The Change and the Changer--Teaching the Children--
Casting Epithets at Jealousy--Free Unions and Jealousy--
Feelings, Actions and Public Opinion--The Adulterous Wife of
the Present Day--Jealousy Defeating Its Own Object--Jealousy
of Inanimate Objects.
LII. REMEDIES FOR JEALOUSY 395
Prevention and Cure--Prophylaxis of Jealousy--Fitting Remedy to
Circumstances--The Neglectful and Flirtatious Husband--No
Question of Love--Advice to the Wife of the Flirtatious
Man--An Efficient Though Vulgar Remedy--Jealousy Must Be
Experienced to Be Understood--Necessity for Freedom of
Association--Lines of Conduct for the Wife--Contempt for a
Certain Type of Wife and Husband--The Abandoned Lover--The
Effects of Unrequited Love--Sublimated Sexual Desire--
Replacing Unrequited Love--The Attitude of Goethe--
Simultaneous Loves Possible--Successive Loves Possible--
Eternal Loves--When Sex Relationships May Be Beneficial--
Purchasable Sex Relations and Their Value--The Broken
Engagement--The Terrible Effects on the Young Man--The
Young Streetwalker--Sex Relations with Fiance--Inundating
Sense of Shame--Collapse--Attempts at Suicide--An Active Sex
Life--The Results--
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