versation, in which he had well supported his part in your absence,
sink at once into silence the moment you came into company.

I have told you of this before: and I believe I hinted to you once,
that the superciliousness you put on only to him, was capable of a
construction, which at the time would have very little gratified your
pride to have had made; since it would have been as much in his favour,
as if your disfavour.

Mr. Hickman, my dear, is a modest man. I never see a modest man, but I
am sure (if he has not wanted opportunities) that he has a treasure in
his mind, which requires nothing but the key of encouragement to unlock
it, to make him shine--while a confident man, who, to be confident,
must think as meanly of his company as highly of himself, enters with
magisterial airs upon any subject; and, depending upon his assurance to
bring himself off when found out, talks of more than he is master of.

But a modest man!--O my dear, shall not a modest woman distinguish and
wish to consort with a modest man?--A man, before whom, and to whom she
may open her lips secure of his good opinion of all she says, and of his
just and polite regard for her judgment? and who must therefore inspire
her with an agreeable self-confidence.

What a lot have I drawn!--We are all indeed apt to turn teachers--but,
surely, I am better enabled to talk, to write, upon these subjects,
than ever I was. But I will banish myself, if possible, from an address
which, when I began to write, I was determined to confide wholly to your
own particular.

My dearest, dearest friend, how ready are you to tell us what others
should do, and even what a mother should have done! But indeed you once,
I remember, advanced, that, as different attainments required different
talents to master them, so, in the writing way, a person might not be a
bad critic upon the works of others, although he might himself be unable
to write with excellence. But will you permit me to account for all this
readiness of finding fault, by placing it to human nature, which, being
sensible of the defects of human nature, (that is to say, of its own
defects,) loves to be correcting? But in exercising that talent, chooses
rather to turn its eye outward than inward? In other words, to employ
itself rather in the out-door search, than in the in-door examination.

And here give me leave to add, (and yet it is with tender reluctance,)
that although you say very pretty things of no