tters in which the lack
of prayerful heed may, and often does, work great and even fatal
mischief in the lives of Clergymen.

RELATIONS WITH WOMAN.

i. Let me first say a little, in brotherly confidence and candour, about
the young Clergyman's _relations with Woman_ in ordinary intercourse.

It would be waste of words to talk about the delicacy of the subject; it
is self-evident. And it is obvious also that in a book like this the
subject can be treated only in the way of general suggestion; no vain
attempt shall I make to state and discuss possible exceptional cases of
social difficulty. But it is quite necessary to say something on this
matter, for it is indeed a pressing and important thing in ministerial
life.

I will begin, then, with the assumption that the young Clergyman
recognizes, and seeks to practise, the great Gospel principle of a
sanctified chivalry. "To the feminine vessel, as to the weaker, give
honour," writes St Peter [1 Pet iii. 7.]; words which must be cut large
and deep into our ministerial hearts if we are to live as true Ministers
and true men. They have a particular reference to married life, I know;
but their full scope is far wider. And they are among the most wonderful
utterances of the apostolic Gospel, when we read them in the light, or
rather under the contrasted darkness, of the contemporary
_anti_-chivalry of the Rabbinic teaching about woman. They are the
utterance of Peter, the married man, after his discipleship in the
Spirit at the feet of Jesus, the Mother's Son. "_Giving honour_;" do not
forget the phrase. It lifts us into a higher and far healthier region
than that of either mere fondness or mere admiration. Indeed, it is
all-important to remember what a deep gulph lies between two things
which at first sight may be mistaken for one another--Admiration for
Women, Reverence for Woman.

So let apostolic chivalry, unaffected, but watchful and practical,
govern your life, by the grace of God. Let it be quite impartial as a
principle. You may possibly have to speak with a princess; you are sure
to have to speak and deal with very poor and ignorant women. But each
and all they are WOMAN, and you must remember the Apostle's word.
Courtesy and consideration are due to them all, as you are a man, a
Christian, a Minister of God. The expression may vary, and within limits
it must, but the principle must be always there. To the poorest woman
give the wall in the street, offer the best s