ea to their minds,
and thus distress them."
"I never thought of that before," said Rollo.
"No, I presume not. And I had not time to explain it to you when we were
upon the cliffs, and so I simply directed you to keep back of us. That
would have prevented all trouble, if you had only obeyed."
Rollo was silent and thoughtful. He was sorry that he had disobeyed.
"However," continued his father, "I am very glad I have had this
opportunity to explain this subject to you. Now, I want you to
remember, after this, that the best way, in all such cases, is to
consider, not what the actual danger is, but what the feelings and fears
of those who are with you may be. It is not your own safety, but the
comfort of others, that you have to look out for."
"Yes, sir," said Rollo, "I will."
"Once there were two young men," continued his father, "taking a ride in
chaises. Each had his sister with him. They came to an old bridge that
was somewhat decayed, and it led across a very deep ravine which looked
very frightful, though in reality the bridge was perfectly strong and
safe. Now, when the first chaise came near, the girl who was in it cried
out,
"'O brother, what a bridge! O, I must get out and walk over it. I don't
dare to ride over such a bridge.'
"'Poh, nonsense!' said Henry. Her brother's name was Henry. 'The bridge
is strong enough for a four-ox team. I have been over it a dozen times.'
So he drove on. His sister looked very much terrified when they came
upon the bridge, but they went over safely.
"'There,' said Henry, when they had got over, 'I told you it was safe.'
"When the other chaise came down, the young lady said the same thing to
_her_ brother, whose name was Charles. She said she was afraid to ride
over.
"'Very well,' said Charles. 'The bridge is safe enough, but I think,
perhaps, it may be pleasanter for you to walk over. It will rest you to
walk a little, and besides, you can stop to look at the pleasant
prospect, up and down the river, from the middle of the bridge.'
"So his sister got out, and he drove the chaise over carefully, while
she walked behind. Now, which do you think took the best course, Charles
or Henry?"
"I--don't know," said Rollo.
"The way to determine," said his father, "is to apply the Savior's rule,
'Do unto others as you would have others do unto you.'"
"Well, I think," said Rollo, "that I should rather get out and walk."
"I am sure I should," said Lucy.
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