the name of liberty, and of the way they will look at us, in
the name of liberty.
English servants, I have discovered, have no more respect for
Americans than the old-time negro of the Southern aristocracy has for
Northerners. I once asked an old black mammy in Georgia why the
negroes had so little respect for the white ladies of the North. "Case
dey don' know how to treat black folks, honey." "Why don't they?" I
persisted. "Are they not kind to you?" "Umph," she responded (and no
one who has never heard a fat old negress say "Umph" knows the
eloquence of it). "Umph. Dat's it. Dey's too kin'. Dey don' know how
to mek us min'." And that is just the trouble with Americans here. An
English servant takes orders, not requests.
I had such a time to learn that. We could not understand why we were
obeyed so well at first, and presently, without any outward
disrespect, our wants were simply ignored until all the English people
had been attended to.
My sister had told me I was too polite, but one never believes one's
sister, so I questioned our sweet English friends, and they, with much
delicacy and many apologies, and the prettiest hesitation in the
world--considering the situation--told us the reason.
"But," I gasped, "if I should speak to our servants in that manner
they would leave. They would not stay over night." Our English friends
tried not to smile in a superior way, and they succeeded, only I knew
the smile was there, and said, "Oh, no, our servants never leave us.
They apologize for having done it wrong."
On the way home I plucked up courage. "I am going to try it," I said,
firmly. My sister laughed in derision.
"Now I could do it," she said, complaisantly. And so she could. My
sister never plumes herself on a quality she does not possess.
"Are you going to use the tone and everything?" I said, somewhat
timidly.
"You wait and see."
She hesitated some time, I noticed, before she rang the bell, and she
looked at herself in the glass and cleared her throat. I knew she was
bracing herself.
"I'll ring the bell if you like," I said, politely.
She gave one look at me and then rang the bell herself with a firm
hand.
"And I'll get behind you with a poker in One hand and a pitcher of hot
water in the other. Speak when you need either."
"You feel very funny when you don't have to do it yourself," she said,
witheringly.
"You'll never put it through. You'll back down and say 'please' before
you ha
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