o his little daughter, as he would
to his wife.
On the street, a man must wait for a lady to recognize him, but should be
ready to remove his hat simultaneously with her greeting, raising and
replacing it quickly. The fashion of removing the hat after meeting a lady
is absurd. How does she know the courtesy has been extended?
When a man is with a lady who recognizes an acquaintance, he must raise
his hat, whether he knows the individual or not. He should, however, keep
his eyes straight ahead, not looking at the person.
If he meets a man walking with a lady whom he does not know, he waits the
man's recognition.
A man removes his hat in an elevator if women enter or are already inside.
This rule is often ignored in large public buildings.
If a woman bows to a man in any place where it is his privilege to wear
his hat, he removes his hat and does not replace it while she is talking
with him. This rule applies everywhere except on the street. "A gentleman
of the old school" will stand bareheaded on the street if exchanging a
word or two with a lady; in such case she may request him to replace his
hat.
A man when driving or motoring cannot remove his hat. He bends forward
slightly and touches his hat brim with his whip, held upright, in the
first case, and raises his hand to the visor of his cap in the latter.
At Other Times.--When he is able to render some slight service to a woman
whom he does not know, she will thank him with a slight inclination of the
head and a smile, and he should raise his hat. When he relinquishes his
seat in the street car, he should give the lady a chance to acknowledge
his courtesy, and then raise his hat.
Men raise their hats and stand uncovered as a funeral cortege passes into
the church or from a house, and at the grave.
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They also stand uncovered when the United States flag is borne past, or
the national hymn--the "Star Spangled Banner"--is played in public, at a
military review, etc.
When a man passes a lady in the corridor of a hotel, or on the stairway,
he should raise his hat.
When he takes leave of a lady, the same act of deference is expected.
Hat and Coat When Calling.--When calling, the man looks after his own hat,
overcoat and stick. His hostess does not offer to relieve him of them, nor
suggest the removal of his coat. He deposits his hat and stick on table or
seat in the hall before entering the drawing-room, and take
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